{"id":962,"date":"2024-03-19T14:20:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-19T14:20:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/?p=962"},"modified":"2024-07-21T09:28:19","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T09:28:19","slug":"ana-si-manole-un-cuplu-oarecare-relatia-de-atasament-in-psihologie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/2024\/03\/19\/ana-si-manole-un-cuplu-oarecare-relatia-de-atasament-in-psihologie\/","title":{"rendered":"Ana \u0219i Manole \u2013 un cuplu oarecare. Rela\u021bia de ata\u0219ament \u00een psihologie"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"962\" class=\"elementor elementor-962\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6953eba elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6953eba\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7eb2d445\" data-id=\"7eb2d445\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43855b15 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"43855b15\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.13.2 - 11-05-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p><!-- wp:image {\"id\":963,\"sizeSlug\":\"large\",\"linkDestination\":\"none\"} --><\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Atasamentul-Ana-si-Manole-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<p><!-- \/wp:image --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cen ochii lumii<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-un col\u021b lini\u0219tit al unei mici localit\u0103\u021bi, tr\u0103iau Ana \u0219i Manole, un cuplu care, pentru to\u021bi din jur, p\u0103rea s\u0103 fie desprins din paginile unei pove\u0219ti de dragoste. At\u00e2t erau de tineri, de frumo\u0219i \u0219i de potrivi\u021bi unul cu cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce era la ei acas\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Ana era o mam\u0103 devotat\u0103, o so\u021bie iubitoare \u0219i o prieten\u0103 de \u00eencredere. Cu o bl\u00e2nde\u021be f\u0103r\u0103 margini, Ana se implica \u00een tot ceea ce f\u0103cea, aduc\u00e2nd lumin\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u00een vie\u021bile celor din jurul ei. \u00cen ciuda greut\u0103\u021bilor pe care le \u00eent\u00e2mpina \u00een via\u021b\u0103, Ana r\u0103m\u00e2nea mereu puternic\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103 de dragoste. \u00ce\u0219i cre\u0219tea cu grij\u0103 copiii, \u00eei sus\u021binea pe cei din jur \u0219i aducea bucurie \u00een fiecare zi. Era acel tip de femeie care te f\u0103cea s\u0103 te sim\u021bi \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i apreciat ori de c\u00e2te ori erai \u00een preajma ei.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Manole se remarca pentru mofturile sale \u0219i pentru faptul c\u0103 era mereu nemul\u021bumit de tot ce \u00eel \u00eenconjura. Cu o atitudine rece \u0219i indiferent\u0103, el p\u0103rea mereu s\u0103 caute motive s\u0103 critice \u0219i s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ciuda eforturilor Anei de a-l \u00een\u021belege \u0219i de a-l sprijini, Manole r\u0103m\u00e2nea mereu distant \u0219i incapabil s\u0103 ofere dragostea \u0219i recuno\u0219tin\u021ba pe care Ana le a\u0219tepta at\u00e2t de mult. \u00cen loc s\u0103 aprecieze sacrificiile ei \u0219i dragostea ei necondi\u021bionat\u0103, el r\u0103m\u00e2nea blocat \u00een propria sa lume de nemul\u021bumire \u0219i egoism.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>\u0218i unul \u0219i cel\u0103lalt erau neferici\u021bi \u0219i tr\u0103iau cu speran\u021ba c\u0103 m\u00e2ine va fi mai bine.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Psihologia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>De unde vine acest comportament? Ce-i face pe cei doi s\u0103 r\u00e2m\u00e2n\u0103 prin\u0219i \u00een aceast\u0103 dinamic\u0103 disfunc\u021bional\u0103 de cuplu?<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Este vorba de conceptul psihologic numit \u201data\u0219ament\u201d. Ata\u0219amentul este prima leg\u0103tur\u0103 pe care copilul o stabile\u0219te la venirea lui pe lume, cu persoana care \u00eel \u00eengrije\u0219te. De regul\u0103 mama este cea c\u0103reia \u00eei revine acest rol.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Prin experimentarea acestei rela\u021bii, creierul copilului face primele \u201d\u00eenregistr\u0103ri\u201d \u00een raport cu lumea oferindu-\u0219i r\u0103spunsuri la \u00eentreb\u0103ri fundamentale cum ar fi: Este el bine venit aici? Este lumea un loc prietenos? Ce atitudine au cei din jur? Po\u021bi s\u0103 te bazezi pe ei?<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen virtutea acestui ata\u0219ament oamenii aleg \u00een mod incon\u0219tient parteneri cu care s\u0103 refac\u0103 atmosfera creat\u0103 prin aceste convingeri originare. Pentru Ana este o nevoie de a se sacrifica de dragul celorlal\u021bi, pentru a fi apreciat\u0103, iar pentru Manole, de a se izola pentru a se proteja pe sine.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Rela\u021bia de ata\u0219ament<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Rela\u021bia de ata\u0219ament din copil\u0103ria timpurie poate influen\u021ba \u00een mod semnificativ modul \u00een care ne raport\u0103m la ceilal\u021bi \u00een via\u021ba de adult. Leg\u0103tura pe care o dezvolt\u0103m cu figurile de ata\u0219ament \u00een primii ani ai vie\u021bii noastre poate stabili un precedent pentru felul \u00een care ne raport\u0103m la intimitate, la rela\u021biile de cuplu \u0219i la interac\u021biunile sociale ulterioare.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Cercet\u0103rile arat\u0103 c\u0103 indivizii care au avut o rela\u021bie de ata\u0219ament sigur\u0103 \u00een copil\u0103rie, \u00een care au sim\u021bit c\u0103 pot conta pe figurile de ata\u0219ament pentru sprijin \u0219i siguran\u021b\u0103, tind s\u0103 dezvolte rela\u021bii s\u0103n\u0103toase \u0219i echilibrate \u00een via\u021ba de adult. Ace\u0219ti oameni au tendin\u021ba s\u0103 fie mai \u00eencrez\u0103tori \u00een sine, mai pu\u021bin anxio\u0219i \u0219i mai pu\u021bin predispu\u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i proiecteze nevoile \u0219i frustr\u0103rile asupra partenerilor lor.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, cei care au avut o rela\u021bie de ata\u0219ament insecurizant\u0103 \u00een copil\u0103rie pot s\u0103 aib\u0103 dificult\u0103\u021bi \u00een rela\u021biile de cuplu \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i manifeste nevoile \u0219i frustr\u0103rile \u00eentr-un mod mai pu\u021bin s\u0103n\u0103tos. Ei pot s\u0103 se simt\u0103 mai nesiguri \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu propriile lor valori \u0219i s\u0103 caute adesea validare extern\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een propriile lor alegeri \u0219i decizii.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Prin urmare, este important s\u0103 con\u0219tientiz\u0103m impactul pe care \u00eel poate avea rela\u021bia noastr\u0103 de ata\u0219ament din copil\u0103rie asupra comportamentului \u0219i rela\u021biilor noastre de adult. Este posibil s\u0103 descoperim c\u0103 unele dintre reac\u021biile noastre la conflicte sau la intimitate au r\u0103d\u0103cini \u00een experien\u021bele noastre timpurii.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Cu toate acestea, este necesar s\u0103 ne amintim c\u0103 nu suntem prizonierii trecutului nostru. Putem lucra pentru a ne \u00een\u021belege mai bine \u0219i pentru a ne vindeca r\u0103nile emo\u021bionale din copil\u0103rie. Prin terapie \u0219i autoreflec\u021bie, putem s\u0103 ne dezvolt\u0103m abilit\u0103\u021bile de rela\u021bionare \u0219i s\u0103 construim rela\u021bii s\u0103n\u0103toase \u0219i \u00eemplinite \u00een ciuda provoc\u0103rilor din trecutul nostru.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Concluzie<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Trecutul este o explica\u021bie, nu o scuz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Aminte\u0219te-\u021bi c\u0103 po\u021bi s\u0103 te schimbi \u00a0\u0219i s\u0103 te dezvol\u021bi \u00een mod constant. S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi asumi responsabilitatea pentru propriile comportamente \u0219i s\u0103 lucrezi pentru a construi rela\u021bii care s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aduc\u0103 fericire \u0219i \u00eemplinire pe termen lung. S\u0103 alegi con\u0219tient.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Cu\u00a0 mintea \u0219i cu inima, cum s-ar zice.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text ); font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; font-size: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-size ); font-weight: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-weight ); background-color: var(--global--color-background);\">18.03.2024<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text ); font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; font-size: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-size ); font-weight: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-weight ); background-color: var(--global--color-background);\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Claudia Scornea, psihoterapeut<\/p>\n<p><em>Te pot ajuta s\u0103 faci ordine \u00een g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i \u00een emo\u021biile tale<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --> <!-- \/wp:paragraph --> <!-- wp:paragraph --> <!-- \/wp:paragraph --> <!-- wp:paragraph --> <!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><em>Whatsapp 0745258662<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen ochii lumii \u00centr-un col\u021b lini\u0219tit al unei mici localit\u0103\u021bi, tr\u0103iau Ana \u0219i Manole, un cuplu care, pentru to\u021bi din jur, p\u0103rea s\u0103 fie desprins din paginile unei pove\u0219ti de dragoste. At\u00e2t erau de tineri, de frumo\u0219i \u0219i de potrivi\u021bi unul cu cel\u0103lalt. Ce era la ei acas\u0103? Ana era o mam\u0103 devotat\u0103, o so\u021bie&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/2024\/03\/19\/ana-si-manole-un-cuplu-oarecare-relatia-de-atasament-in-psihologie\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ana \u0219i Manole \u2013 un cuplu oarecare. 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