{"id":954,"date":"2024-02-14T16:53:49","date_gmt":"2024-02-14T16:53:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/?p=954"},"modified":"2024-07-21T09:35:55","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T09:35:55","slug":"si-au-trait-fericiti-pana-la-adanci-batraneti-viata-ca-o-poveste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/2024\/02\/14\/si-au-trait-fericiti-pana-la-adanci-batraneti-viata-ca-o-poveste\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201c\u0218i au tr\u0103it ferici\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 la ad\u00e2nci b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bi\u201d – Via\u021ba ca o poveste"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Mai \u0219tii formula de la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul basmelor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-\u201d\u0218i au tr\u0103it ferici\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 la ad\u00e2nci b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bi?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Frumos, nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ce vremuri! C\u00e2nd erai mic \u0219i \u021bi se spuneau ori \u021bi se citeau pove\u0219ti. Sau c\u00e2nd ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u021bi le cite\u0219ti singur cu aviditate. \u0218i f\u0103r\u0103 interpret. (Caci rolul cititorului de pove\u0219ti c\u0103tre un copil este \u0219i  sa-l ajute \u00een decodificarea basmului \u2013 dar \u0103sta se pare c\u0103 va fi un alt articol)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd cresc mari, copiii deveni\u021bi adul\u021bi, cred c\u0103 pove\u0219tile care le-au fost spuse erau doar \u201dpove\u0219ti de adormit copiii\u201d \u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba e mult mai grea \u0219i mai complicat\u0103 dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La drept vorbind, via\u021ba nu are cum s\u0103 fie mai complicat\u0103 de at\u00e2t. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een basme lucrurile nu sunt deloc simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

BASMUL<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exist\u0103 bine \u0219i exist\u0103 r\u0103u. Mult bine \u0219i mult r\u0103u. Exist\u0103 zmei, exist\u0103 vr\u0103jitori \u0219i vr\u0103jitoare, exist\u0103 balauri cu 3, 7 sau 12 capete, exist\u0103 castele fermecate \u0219i prin\u021bese adormite ori prin\u021bi blestema\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exist\u0103 porci care peste noapte \u00ee\u0219i leap\u0103d\u0103 pielea de porc \u0219i se transform\u0103 \u00een prin\u021bi care \u00eenf\u0103ptuiesc minuni doar pentru a primi de so\u021bie pe fata \u00eemp\u0103ratului \u0219i jum\u0103tate din \u00eemp\u0103r\u0103\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exist\u0103 bestii sau broscoi care se preschimb\u0103 \u00een prin\u021bi cu suflet mare \u0219i chip frumos numai prin simpla putere a unui s\u0103rut al dragostei adev\u0103rate. Exist\u0103 prin\u021bese care merg la bal, iar la miezul nop\u021bii \u00ee\u0219i pierd pantoful, prin\u021bese care pot dormi pe o mul\u021bime de saltele \u0219i s\u0103 poat\u0103 totu\u0219i sim\u021bi disconfortul unui bob de maz\u0103re ascuns dedesubtul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai pare at\u00e2t de simplu, nu-i a\u0219a? \u00cen lumea asta magic\u0103 \u0219i aparent neverosimil\u0103, partea reconfortant\u0103 e c\u0103 binele \u00eenvinge r\u0103ul, ceea ce reduce din presiunea celui care e prins \u00een poveste ca cititor sau ascult\u0103tor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

REALITATEA<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar pe de alt\u0103 parte avem Realitatea unde diferen\u021ba e c\u0103 lucrurile nu sunt neap\u0103rat a\u0219a \u00een ce prive\u0219te finalul obligatoriu fericit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nici at\u00e2t de diferite nu sunt. Nu avem neap\u0103rat balauri, vr\u0103jitoare, prin\u021bi, prin\u021bese, regi \u0219i  regine la tot pasul \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi. Dar avem altceva. Avem OAMENI cu comportamente agresive, oameni cu comportamente pasive, oameni asertivi care pot exprima ce vor si ce gandesc fara a face rau nici altora nici lor \u00een\u0219ile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar comportamentele astea pot \u00eembr\u0103ca haina oricui. Poate fi rud\u0103 apropiat\u0103 sau dep\u0103rtat\u0103, prieten, cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103, vecin, coleg, necunoscut care se va comporta ca un adev\u0103rat erou de basm: va face r\u0103u, va face bine, va amenin\u021ba, va \u00eensp\u0103im\u00e2nta, va iubi, va ajuta, va ocroti, va fi adev\u0103rat balaur care scuip\u0103 fl\u0103c\u0103ri, z\u00e2n\u0103 bun\u0103 sau F\u0103t-Frumos plin de curaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen concluzie, via\u021ba nu e un basm. Dar nici foarte departe nu e de acesta. Personajele din basm pot avea corespondent \u00een persoane din realitate, iar pentru ca binele s\u0103 \u00eenving\u0103, acesta trebuie sus\u021binut cu lupt\u0103, iubire \u0219i alia\u021bi de \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate dac\u0103 ai putea m\u0103car acum s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi lec\u021biile alea din basme \u0219i s\u0103 transformi metaforele \u00een ceva concret\u2026 Poate \u021bi-ar putea fi mai u\u0219or s\u0103 te treze\u0219ti din somnul \u0103la greu \u00een care te-ai cufundat \u00een copil\u0103rie vr\u0103jit(\u0103) de o poveste\u2026 Poate ai fi mai asumat(\u0103) \u0219i mai fericit(\u0103)\u2026 \u0218i ai lupta mai mult pentru tine \u00eensu\u021bi\/\u00eens\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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14.02.2024<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Claudia Scornea, psihoterapeut<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te pot ajuta s\u0103 faci ordine \u00een g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i \u00een emo\u021biile tale<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatsapp 0745258662<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mai \u0219tii formula de la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul basmelor? -\u201d\u0218i au tr\u0103it ferici\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 la ad\u00e2nci b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bi?\u201d Frumos, nu? Ce vremuri! C\u00e2nd erai mic \u0219i \u021bi se spuneau ori \u021bi se citeau pove\u0219ti. Sau c\u00e2nd ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u021bi le cite\u0219ti singur cu aviditate. \u0218i f\u0103r\u0103 interpret. (Caci rolul cititorului de pove\u0219ti c\u0103tre un copil este \u0219i … Continue reading \u201c\u0218i au tr\u0103it ferici\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 la ad\u00e2nci b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bi\u201d – Via\u021ba ca o poveste<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32,8,7],"tags":[35,43,44,33,31,38,34,46,39,41,40,36,37,22,45,42],"class_list":["post-954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-autocunoastere","category-parenting","category-relatii","tag-autocunoastere","tag-coaching","tag-consiliere","tag-dezvoltare-personala","tag-emotii","tag-fumat","tag-implinire","tag-iubire-de-sine","tag-psihologie","tag-psihoterapeut-online","tag-psihoterapie","tag-realizare","tag-schimbare","tag-suferinta","tag-suflet","tag-vointa","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=954"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":996,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954\/revisions\/996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}