{"id":937,"date":"2024-02-06T07:18:57","date_gmt":"2024-02-06T07:18:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/?p=937"},"modified":"2024-07-21T09:30:08","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T09:30:08","slug":"nu-sari-dintr-o-relatie-in-alta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/2024\/02\/06\/nu-sari-dintr-o-relatie-in-alta\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu s\u0103ri dintr-o rela\u021bie \u00een alta"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" src=\"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/download.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-938\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tocmai ai ie\u0219it dintr-o rela\u021bie. Ni\u021bel cam t\u0103v\u0103lit(\u0103) \u0219i ne\u0219tiind cum s-a produs trecerea asta de la extaz la agonie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A fost a\u0219a de frumos la \u00eenceput! Cum v\u0103 iubea\u021bi, cum v\u0103 bucura\u021bi voi unul de altul \u0219i a\u021bi fi vrut ca timpul s\u0103 stea \u00een loc. Apoi c\u0103derea. Pr\u0103bu\u0219irea. Doi du\u0219mani. Zero \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>DIN RAI \u00ceN IAD<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum doare. Normal c\u0103 doare! Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi doar. At\u00e2ta c\u0103dere din Rai tocmai p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een fundul Iadului! Doare al naibii de mult \u0219i ai da orice s\u0103 scapi de durerea asta. C\u00e2t mai repede. Urgent chiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar cum s\u0103 scapi de goliciunea din sufletul t\u0103u pe care o resim\u021bi at\u00e2t de dureros? Ce s\u0103 pui \u00een loc? Ce ar putea s\u0103 te vindece?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instinctiv intri pe modul supravie\u021buire \u0219i ob\u021bii un r\u0103spuns. Te vei conecta rapid la un alt suflet de la care s\u0103 te \u00eencarci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunt Claudia Scornea, psiholog-psihoterapeut \u0219i tocmai \u021bi-am descris mecanismul care te face s\u0103 sari dintr-o rela\u021bie \u00een alta, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi acorzi timp s\u0103 te vindeci, s\u0103 te refaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este un mod de a intra \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie lipsit de resurse proprii cu inten\u021bia incon\u0219tient\u0103 de a te hr\u0103ni emotional din resursele altuia. Nici nu conteaz\u0103 cine e persoana. Disponibil\u0103 s\u0103 fie, c\u0103ci nu te mai intereseaz\u0103 de ce. Poate avea probleme emo\u021bionale nerezolvate, poate fi \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie de vulnerabilitate, poate fi c\u0103zut\u0103 ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i la p\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru tine, nimic din toate astea nu conteaz\u0103. Pentru tine e o rezolvare s\u0103 te hr\u0103ne\u0219ti din sufletul altuia lipsindu-l pe el de via\u021b\u0103. Nu e moral, desigur, dar cui \u00eei mai st\u0103 acum g\u00e2ndul la moralitate. Cum s\u0103-\u021bi mai pese de altul c\u00e2nd tu e\u0219ti vrai\u0219te?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar \u0219tii ce? Asta nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103. E doar o solu\u021bie pe temen scurt care se sf\u00e2r\u0219e\u0219te tot cu tine \u00een criz\u0103. Tot singur. \u0218i cu victime colaterale. &nbsp;Nu ai f\u0103cut altceva dec\u00e2t s\u0103-\u021bi prelunge\u0219ti suferin\u021ba. Ai anesteziat-o un pic pun\u00e2ndu-i acest pansament uman, dar c\u00e2t s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 efectul a ceva ce e menit s\u0103 fie provizoriu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>CARE E CHEIA? PE UNDE ESTE IE\u0218IREA?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uite cheia!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu intra dintr o relatie in alta. Stiu ca e dureros sa fii tu in aceste momente. Ca ai vrea pe cineva sa te aline si care sa te faca sa uiti durerea. Dar ai nevoie de aceasta durere ca sa te vindeci. Ca sa intelegi ce s-a intamplat. Unde ai gresit si ce semne ai ignorat de la inceput in relatia asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai nevoie de timp pentru a vindeca aceast\u0103 durere. Timp \u00een care s\u0103 fi tu cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi. S\u0103 afli cine e\u0219ti, ce vrei, \u00eencotro te \u00eendrep\u021bi. S\u0103 accep\u021bi trecutul ca fiind \u00eencheiat \u0219i s\u0103 accep\u021bi faptul c\u0103 acum e\u0219ti un alt om. Mai experimentat \u0219i mai trecut prin via\u021b\u0103. Mai bine preg\u0103tit pentru \u00eencerc\u0103rile care vor urma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai grij\u0103 de sufletul acestui om care e\u0219ti tu acum \u0219i hr\u0103ne\u0219te-l frumos!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Claudia Scornea, psihoterapeut<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Te pot ajuta s\u0103 faci ordine \u00een g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i \u00een emo\u021biile tale<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Whatsapp 0745258662<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tocmai ai ie\u0219it dintr-o rela\u021bie. Ni\u021bel cam t\u0103v\u0103lit(\u0103) \u0219i ne\u0219tiind cum s-a produs trecerea asta de la extaz la agonie. A fost a\u0219a de frumos la \u00eenceput! Cum v\u0103 iubea\u021bi, cum v\u0103 bucura\u021bi voi unul de altul \u0219i a\u021bi fi vrut ca timpul s\u0103 stea \u00een loc. Apoi c\u0103derea. Pr\u0103bu\u0219irea. Doi du\u0219mani. Zero \u00eencredere. 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