{"id":1034,"date":"2024-10-21T06:55:44","date_gmt":"2024-10-21T06:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/?p=1034"},"modified":"2024-10-21T14:55:02","modified_gmt":"2024-10-21T14:55:02","slug":"mituri-reinterpretate-ana-lui-manole-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/2024\/10\/21\/mituri-reinterpretate-ana-lui-manole-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Mituri reinterpretate: Ana lui Manole"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>\/*! elementor - v3.13.2 - 11-05-2023 *\/<br \/>\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/iStock-1321546697-1024x683.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/iStock-1321546697-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/iStock-1321546697-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/iStock-1321546697-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/iStock-1321546697.jpg 1254w\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Are poporul rom\u00e2n ni\u0219te mituri curioase \u0219i extrem de interpretabile.<\/p>\n<p>Dat\u0103 fiind activitatea mea din cabinetul de psihoterapie, mi-a atras aten\u021bia mitul Me\u0219terului Manole. U\u0219or identificabil \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103 \u00een cupluri c\u0103s\u0103torite sau nu. \u00cen workaholism \u0219i \u00eendep\u0103rtarea de familie. \u00cen inten\u021bii bune \u0219i rezultate dramatice. \u00cen nes\u0103buin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i lipsa de discernam\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i mai ales \u00een persoanele care vin la terapie s\u0103 cear\u0103 ajutorul ne\u00een\u021beleg\u00e2nd cum de iubirea lor i-a dus \u00eentr-un loc at\u00e2t de \u00eentunecat<\/p>\n<p><strong>Onestitatea<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 Manole ar fi fost suficient de onest fa\u021b\u0103 de Ana \u201dlui\u201d, discursul lui ar fi fost urm\u0103torul:<\/p>\n<p>\u201dIube\u0219te-m\u0103, An\u0103, ca s\u0103-mi des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219esc crea\u021bia. C\u0103 eu asta vreau. S\u0103 fiu cunoscut lumii, nu doar aici la noi acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Iube\u0219te-m\u0103 \u0219i sacrific\u0103-te tu pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u0219i copilul ce-l por\u021bi \u00een p\u00e2ntec.<\/p>\n<p>Eu nu-mi permit s\u0103 fiu familist, c\u0103 asta e prea pu\u021bin pentru mine.<\/p>\n<p>Eu am lucruri mari de f\u0103cut pe lumea asta, nu am pasiuni m\u0103runte ca tine.<\/p>\n<p>Tu e\u0219ti prea neputincioas\u0103 \u0219i neajutorat\u0103. Prea iubitoare. Iar iubirea vulnerabilizeaz\u0103, An\u0103! Te face slab! \u00cenva\u021b\u0103 de la mine! O s\u0103 te convingi tu p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 de vorba mea.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tiu eu ce e mai bine de f\u0103cut. Tu ascult\u0103, An\u0103. Eu \u0219tiu mai bine. Rupe muntii, An\u0103. Rupe-i \u00een dou\u0103. Str\u0103bate furtuni, An\u0103. Nu \u0219tiu cum faci tu asta. Dar \u021bie chiar \u00ee\u021bi iese.<\/p>\n<p>Hai, An\u0103, cu furtunile alea. Hai, An\u0103, cu mun\u021bii aia. Am nevoie de tine s\u0103 te \u00eengrop \u00een visele mele.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i treci odat\u0103 aici, c\u0103 eu am o crea\u021bie de terminat. Ce-\u021bi ia at\u00e2ta timp?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce avem noi aici? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un b\u0103rbat care are un loc de munc\u0103. E \u0219eful unei echipe de 9 muncitori. Are \u0219i o nevast\u0103. \u00cens\u0103rcinat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>De me\u0219ter i s-a dus vestea \u00een toat\u0103 \u021bara c\u0103 e bun. Cel mai bun. La fel echipa lui.<\/p>\n<p>Contactat fiind pentru o lucrare (el este constructor de meserie), se pune la treab\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dar, ce s\u0103 vezi, ce construia ziua, se d\u0103r\u00e2ma noaptea. \u0218i asta nu din cauza lui. Nu!!! Din cauza blestemelor locului.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd el viseaz\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-\u0219i sacrifice nevasta dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 finalizeze lucrarea \u0219i s\u0103 nu-\u0219i \u0219tirbeasc\u0103 reputa\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru Manole, Ana nu este un om cu sentimente proprii, cu dreptul la existen\u021b\u0103 proprie. Pentru el este o ofrand\u0103 pe care el poate s\u0103 o sacrifice pe altarul propriei afirm\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p>De ce simt b\u0103rba\u021bii ca Manole c\u0103 pentru crea\u021biile lor merit\u0103 s\u0103 o \u00eengroape pe Ana \u00eentre ziduri? De ce sunt ei mari me\u0219teri \u00een felul \u0103sta toxic?<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i de ce femeile se las\u0103 zidite de dragul partenerilor lor? Iar \u00een timpul zidirii lor ele r\u00e2d \u0219i mai poart\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2te un copil \u00een burt\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nu fi ca Ana<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tu nu fi ca Ana. Tu s\u0103 nu accep\u021bi s\u0103 fii ca Ana. C\u0103ci din neaten\u021bie \u021bi se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u0219i \u021bie s\u0103 ajungi pe acolo. \u0218i, crede-m\u0103, e tare greu s\u0103 sf\u0103r\u00e2mi zidul \u0103la atunci c\u00e2nd Manole te \u00eenchide \u00een interiorul lui. S\u0103 tratezi o brut\u0103 ca pe un b\u0103rbat foarte fin este o gre\u0219eal\u0103 pe care Ana poate s\u0103 o fac\u0103. Poate s\u0103 o fac\u0103 din dragoste oarb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ce este foarte trist \u00een aceast\u0103 balad\u0103\u2026 Ce ironie!\u2026 Balad\u0103\u2026 C\u00e2ntec ce ar trebui s\u0103 lini\u0219teasc\u0103, s\u0103 m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie, dar care func\u021bioneaz\u0103 ca o anestezie. O anestezie pentru ca Ana s\u0103 fac\u0103 acel lucru de neiertat: s\u0103 nu se protejeze \u0219i s\u0103 nu-\u0219i protejeze copilul din p\u00e2ntec.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mitul jertfei \u0219i al crea\u021biei de tip \u201dme\u0219terul Manole\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Mitul poporului rom\u00e2n care justific\u0103 sacrificiul altuia. Dac\u0103 scopul e suficient de nobil, atunci b\u0103rbatul are scuze pentru a-\u0219i sacrifica so\u021bia. R\u0103m\u00e2ne chiar \u00een istorie ca un simbol.<\/p>\n<p>Legenda spune despre Manole c\u0103 este iresponsabil p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t. Odat\u0103 ce este abandonat de Negru Vod\u0103 pe acoperi\u0219ul mun\u0103stirii create, el \u00eempreun\u0103 cu me\u0219terii lui \u00ee\u0219i creeaz\u0103 evadarea folosind \u0219indrilele acoperi\u0219ului pe post de aripi. O \u00eencercare de Icar mitologic. Doar c\u0103 m\u0103istria acestui me\u0219ter Manole nu-l face s\u0103 \u0219i zboare de unul singur, ci s\u0103 se pr\u0103bu\u0219easc\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 cu ceilal\u021bi nou\u0103, calfele \u0219i zidarii din echipa lui.<\/p>\n<p>Oi fi eu vreun soi de An\u0103, dar tot consider c\u0103 sursa vie\u021bii este iubirea. Este forma de energie, care ne d\u0103 aripi adev\u0103rate cu care putem zbura \u0219i crea.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219a stau lucrurile \u00een partea aia de suflet de femeie. Care, ce s\u0103 vezi? Poate s\u0103 bat\u0103 \u0219i \u00een pieptul unui b\u0103rbat.<\/p>\n<p>15.12.2023<\/p>\n<p>Claudia Scornea,<\/p>\n<p>Psihoterapeut. 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Dat\u0103 fiind activitatea mea din cabinetul de psihoterapie, mi-a atras aten\u021bia mitul Me\u0219terului Manole. U\u0219or identificabil \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103 \u00een cupluri c\u0103s\u0103torite sau nu. \u00cen workaholism \u0219i \u00eendep\u0103rtarea de familie. \u00cen inten\u021bii bune \u0219i rezultate dramatice. \u00cen nes\u0103buin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i lipsa de discernam\u00e2nt. \u0218i mai ales&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/2024\/10\/21\/mituri-reinterpretate-ana-lui-manole-2\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Mituri reinterpretate: Ana lui Manole<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1034"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1034\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1103,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1034\/revisions\/1103"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/claudiascornea.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}